He wont come out....

Hey everybody OK so I have reached the miserable stage I am 38 weeks pregnant and huge. The doctor told me Thursday that I was 3 cm dilated and 70% effaced but he wont come out. I don't understand he is big enough and we both are ready. I keep feeling tightness and pain like cramping but nothing consistent. The doctor also told me I might have toxemia and I wont know that for sure until Monday. I am supposed to take it easy and stay completely of my feet. Today my mom suggested we go eat Mexican and walk the mall. Now I am worn out and my tummy feels yucky but I am still pregnant. I don't think I will ever have this baby.